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Whodunnit · M
The days of caring what people think about me are LONG behind me. Not giving a shit is a very freeing experience. Everyone should try it.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@Whodunnit It’s not even about valuing their opinion so much as the trouble they are apt to stir up with lies and innuendoes after being around them even for a very short period of time. I have experience with a sister who does that and I didn’t even realize what was going on till someone told me she was stirring up crap against me. She would take something irrelevant and spin a story and spread it to get other family members hostile towards me even though I was helping them. It was happening at every family holiday dinner. She’d break her neck to get there an hour before I got there telling me what time things would start. By the time I got there I got met with glares by some. I didn’t have a clue what was going on till years later. I made up my mind not to go around anyone on holidays.
Stillwaiting · M
Whodunnit · M
@Stillwaiting Damn, and to think I could have gotten in first with my philosophy, lol