Dont laugh but this is a thing i think.. Sometimes people are wary and choose someone else...

exchrist · 36-40

Definitely! Guilty as charged. im often convinced of my own shortcomings to such an extent i dont bother to try. I recently had brain surgery and am still getting my bearings; regardless, yes people are often so selfconscious they are convinced they wont succeed to the point of missing out on the opportunity to even try.

exexec · 70-79, C

Yes. When I asked my wife for a date the first time, she turned me down with a fairly good excuse. I thought she was just to pretty and popular for me, so I gave up. A few weeks later, she asked me for a date and wondered why I hadn't asked her again. We married almost 8 years later.