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How often do you resist the urge to say catty and rude things?

I am not going to lie, sometimes I have to catch myself. Idk why it's in me to be that way, well, maybe I do but anyway. It's definitely something I have decision be mindful of. I don't wanna be that person. I am much more in control of my words. Unless I'm angry....God help everyone.
darknessprevails · 26-30, M
Im not a cat so... never
I really feel this. And I have to ask myself what it is that’s pushing my buttons. Or as is sometimes the case, what is it about that person I don’t like about myself?

I generally am mindful and usually catch myself but occasionally I “slip through the cracks.” Happened recently. Got snippy with someone when there was no need to. Guess I was just in a mood. Not something I’m proud of. This being human stuff really sucks sometimes. 🙄
Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F
@Notsimilarreally Lol…. it was a well timed question for me as I was really mad at myself for being rude, knowing I could have handled the situation better. Never have been good at handling being imperfect. Some feelings you have in childhood just never leave, no matter how old you get.
Not very often, especially not these days. But if I do I now tend to ask myself what good could come of it... One comment usually becomes a snowball and I already don't want to be bothered with most people more than a few moments as it is...

If going out of my way to antagonize them is going to increase the time they're in my presence, it's a no. Plus, what would be the point? It doesn't do anything for me and I imagine less for anyone who might be the potential target unless they're just some weirdo who loves drama. 🤷🏾‍♀️
yeronlyman · 51-55, M
Haha with me it’s more exaggerated sarcasm 😬
Paladin · 56-60, M
Something catty?...like meow?
Lilyb · 22-25, F
Unfortunately I don't often resist....
Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F
@Lilyb maybe the wanting to tame this comes with age. I used to not care or even think about it at all
GuiltyBiStander · 31-35, F
I never resist - Bish 😁
Too often I'm afraid
Depends on who I'm talking to. If it's a close friend, I say what's on my mind.

If it's work related, I suppress it, for the most part, and if I can't do that, I definitely don't put it in writing.
Discretion · 41-45, MNew
I've had this battle many a times. Some days I say eff it. Others, I bite my tongue
LilPrincess · 41-45, F
I'm sarcastic and sometimes I can't help myself. 😒
I have no filter..

Ppls feelings are not my job 🤓
calicuz · 51-55, M
Ona daily basis at work. 🙄
Less and less these days
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