updown2020 · 61-69, M
It’s time to move on you are just wasting time with him when you can find someone else.Yes it will hurt but staying together is wasting both your time. What would you say to a friend you told you the same thing ?
Theamy · 26-30, FNew
@updown2020 I would say the same thing you just said. Thanks
lovingdead · 36-40, M
there a lot to unpack there, a good amount seems to be stuff he needs to work on, his unaddressed issues bubbling up.
I'm with most of the people here, you need to go. because when you do, after however long it takes when you're ready to try again. you'll have to unlearn a lot. you wont be in the sort of survival mode you're in now, but your mind body and heart wont know that.
I'm with most of the people here, you need to go. because when you do, after however long it takes when you're ready to try again. you'll have to unlearn a lot. you wont be in the sort of survival mode you're in now, but your mind body and heart wont know that.
lovingdead · 36-40, M
@Theamy you can, its not easy but i promise its worth it.....and also know you're not expected to have unlearned it all by the time of the next relationship
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
Nothing good will come of this relationship.
I think deep down you know this too.
So what are you prepared to do about it ?
Anything positive is going to require some sort of pain, at least in the short term.
But I think you have to instigate it and you need to be strong in your resolve.
I think deep down you know this too.
So what are you prepared to do about it ?
Anything positive is going to require some sort of pain, at least in the short term.
But I think you have to instigate it and you need to be strong in your resolve.
Midlifemale · 61-69, M
Miram · 31-35, F
Keep "feeling like" you will do the right thing. "Feeling like" doing something is how you solve problems.
Duk no.
You are going to waste your youth and end up miserable and unwanted is what will happen.
Figure out what you need to do to start taking actions, including therapy. You need real steps. Thinking and feeling like is nothing.
Duk no.
You are going to waste your youth and end up miserable and unwanted is what will happen.
Figure out what you need to do to start taking actions, including therapy. You need real steps. Thinking and feeling like is nothing.
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Theamy · 26-30, FNew
@PDXNative1986 don’t worry you’ll get cheated too, a lot. And putting the fault on me for what u do? Be fr I ain’t making u the bad guy, ur doing this youself
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PDXNative1986 · 36-40, MVIP
@Theamy DO love how all of you people keep threatening me with a good time though.
Theamy · 26-30, FNew
@Younameit all my friends said he’s a narcissist too! And I know it, he’s so manipulative. You’ll be sooo mad to hear this… he’s not rich, and worse, he owns me money, Idk what I was thinking, I know better now but I didn’t when we met, he’s my first bf. I’m scared that if I leave he won’t pay me back
Younameit · F
@Theamy Forget about your money at this point, leave for your own sake, and if you have an ounce of self worth left. The reason he acts like this with you, aside from being a POS, is because he knows you will stay, so he behaves the way he wants, because there is no actual consequences for him. He will probably leave you when you’re an older woman with wrinkles and not attractive to his standards anyway, so leave first.
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Theamy · 26-30, FNew
@UnderLockDown he said he stopped looking at those, and he deleted all social media and I can’t find anything on his phone. But I can forget he’s done it. Now the problem we have is him cursing me every time he’s mad, and he gets mad for small things like me accidentally dropping something. We can go a day without him being mad, yesterday he said my voice was annoying… but I wont accept this anymore, I’ll do something about it.
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