Friendship...

Am i the only one that feels abandomed by their friends? So i have a lot of good friends like one friend, that we are together like 9 years. Now it feels like they barely text me first, and are using me as a "ghost friend". I dont wan't to sound selfish but now there was a week off. And i didn't even get a message from none of my friends to hangout, even tho they were asking about my weekend plans. Basicly they wanted to go ice scating but they did't even care about our plans.

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Gingerbreadspice · F

I have felt like this on and off my whole adult life. They still text me first but only about once every couple of months. Most of them now live 12 miles away as well. When I had a job, I had coworker friends who I made friends out of and we’d hang out sometimes. There was never a time where I didn’t find a new friend in a new coworker. Now I’m self employed I rely only on my home friends and these are the friends that are busy. I think that you’ll meet other friends in life but you might always struggle with these feelings of boredom and loneliness occasionally.