Friendship...

Am i the only one that feels abandomed by their friends? So i have a lot of good friends like one friend, that we are together like 9 years. Now it feels like they barely text me first, and are using me as a "ghost friend". I dont wan't to sound selfish but now there was a week off. And i didn't even get a message from none of my friends to hangout, even tho they were asking about my weekend plans. Basicly they wanted to go ice scating but they did't even care about our plans.