I'm tired of pretending I have the energy for everyone.

It does matter, because you matter,your son matters.

I don't think we're meant to have energy for everyone that's why we only live in one space and one time.

Priorities help, then your energy is used for things that are important to you.
Trying to please everyone zaps you of those energies.

I'm not sure what you think is the right tone or look on your face?
Perhaps ,if you have a job that requires that then that's something to think about?
But, if it's just about pleasing people around you, especially those that no matter what you do cannot be pleased, then I think perhaps retreating to re-energize is more than okay.

I am a strong believer in using tact and kindness, but I also believe in walking away from those I cannot please no matter what I do.
It brings me to the same kind of frustration that you are experiening.

There are plenty of us that will gladly embrace any version of you that shows up. 💜

Just be yourself always and look after yourself and little guy 😊🤗

Get some rest, some days are better than others.

I might not say the right things, we might not be the closest of friends. I do enjoy our interactions.

I can relate to that in many respects.

Sending you a big hug,

🫂