pls I need advice

What does it mean when all you ever did was help your sister who is a single mom and all she doesn't is belittle you and tell your other family members that you're a bad person and bad aunty and I should watch her child For free if I was a good sister ? I don't get it I have been caring for her daughter for 3 years and she will Alwyas have this hate towards me for no reason cos we don't get along

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Elisbch · M

It sounds like you need to set some boundaries for both your sister and your mother. Neither apparently has any clue what boundaries are. You will continue to get this treatment until you set your own boundaries. Change won't happen overnight but it won't change at all if you don't start.
You can't change what they do but you can choose what you do which will also affect them. You take care of yourself FIRST.