Why am I so scared to lose my boyfriend?

I keep overthinking that my bf doesn’t love me anymore and I don’t know if I’m being paranoid or it trauma from a past relationship or what. I feel like I messed something up and I’m scared of that. I love him and couldn’t imagine losing him but I feel like I am. We don’t text as often as we use to and we don’t say I love you much anymore keep in mind we’ve been dating for 2 almost 3 months and we’re already kinda out of that. I feel scared to talk to him about it I know I shouldn’t be but past trauma makes it hard for me to talk to ppl about my feelings.

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userfawkes1105

2-3 months isnt a long time. If u did do something wrong just try not to do it next time. If he’s upset about it u can’t make him forgive u or forget it he has to choose to let go of that on his own. If he chooses not to let it go. Next relationship don’t do it again. It’s part of life to learn from mistakes.

Makthemakaroon · 16-17, F

@userfawkes1105 that’s good advice thank you. I’ve been trying to not repeat what happened in my last relationship and I will continue to do so🙂