Why am I so scared to lose my boyfriend?

I keep overthinking that my bf doesn’t love me anymore and I don’t know if I’m being paranoid or it trauma from a past relationship or what. I feel like I messed something up and I’m scared of that. I love him and couldn’t imagine losing him but I feel like I am. We don’t text as often as we use to and we don’t say I love you much anymore keep in mind we’ve been dating for 2 almost 3 months and we’re already kinda out of that. I feel scared to talk to him about it I know I shouldn’t be but past trauma makes it hard for me to talk to ppl about my feelings.

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theweekdy · 22-25, M

It’s normal to be scared about losing someone you care about. It really just means you care a lot about them. Also opening up about your feelings is hard and ton of people feel the same!! When you get to a point where you are comfortable enough to open up I’m sure he’d be understanding and more than happy to listen

Makthemakaroon · 16-17, F

@theweekdy thank you

userfawkes1105

2-3 months isnt a long time. If u did do something wrong just try not to do it next time. If he’s upset about it u can’t make him forgive u or forget it he has to choose to let go of that on his own. If he chooses not to let it go. Next relationship don’t do it again. It’s part of life to learn from mistakes.

Makthemakaroon · 16-17, F

@userfawkes1105 that’s good advice thank you. I’ve been trying to not repeat what happened in my last relationship and I will continue to do so🙂

Jake966 · 56-60, M

If he leaves let him go until then treat him good

Makthemakaroon · 16-17, F

@Jake966 I treat him the best I can even if I feel I’m doing my best I do better

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