Do not let anybody fill your head with that nonsense. I am going to tell you what my stepfather told me growing up. I was a lifelong baseball player from the age of four all the way through high School. I was raised in a baseball household where three step Brothers went to triple A ball and one actually made it to the show for a little while. It is not whether you hit a home run every time you step up to the plate that matters. What truly makes you a winner is that when the chips are down you have the guts to step into the box and dig in anyway. And you swing the best you can. If you give it 100% effort and nothing less every single time then you are a champion regardless of what anyone else tells you.