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forever lost i guess

I started dating this guy 5 months ago and he was really sweet. my friends hated him, they would pretty much call me stupid and desperate for dating him. he was so sweet at first, until he wasn't. he would often tell me what to do, but he would never ask. it was his way or no way all the time. he would get mad over the smallest things in class and would find "loop holes" (as he likes to call them to find fault in whatever i say. he'd ask if i wanna get married, I'd say no because at the time it had only been about 2 months. the answer is still no because we're still in school. he had started to take up some of my time, my friends would get frustrated because they wanted to see me too and i couldn't reason with anyone without loosing the other. In short i lost all three of my closest friends and i have a boyfriend that makes me feel like i have to stay with him or else loosing my friends would have all been for nothing. he has all my account passwords except for this one, so i cant talk to anyone as he frequents the accounts daily. he calls me a sl*t because I've had 2 boyfriends before him. he had five. not that I minded. its just that is is too much for me, i dont know what to do, I want to go into the Navy but he threatened to unalive himself if i did. I'm so frustrated and isolated, i feel like hes the only one that understands me but hes also the only one that hurts me. I dont know what to do. this post is so all over the place I'm sorry
Evened · 51-55, M
First things first...
He doesn't care at all for you, it should have been be clear to you the moment you wrote this. Fact is, he has no power over you if you don't let him. Set new passwords that route to a new mail address on all important social media sites. If he claims to have trust issues as a bad excuse to access your privacy, then it's the biggest red flag you saw in your life. It's only about control. I'm sure he has some serious issues, but that's his problem, not yours. I guess I could find a lot more reasons but I hope this is enough.
XForbiddenDesiresX · 26-30, F
I’ve been in thah situation before. I do feel like you need to leave him. It isn’t love. It’s abuse. You also need to find a way (privately) to tell your close friends what he’s doing and that you need help and feel trapped and need them to be there for you. True friends would help you leave him. And support you.
girl..... you need to leave.... life will go one, you will find more friends, dont get stuck in a relationship with someone who is abusive like that. you do whats best for you not him....
Jake966 · 56-60, M
No need to apologize , you are too good for him , he doesn’t deserve you
Convivial · 26-30, F
Just run... He is not the person you want

 
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