My best friend is replacing me

idk what to do or how to deal with it. I love her but the friendship feels so forced now? Shes always doing stuff with her other friend but im never invited, its like she doesnt have time for me but does for others. I used fo be the first one to know about what goes on in her life but rn im always last lol

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IamBack · 31-35, M

It hurts but if it feels forced then probably it’s best to let go 🤷🏻‍♂️

raspblossom · 22-25, F

@IamBack ive been trying to, like im trying to find new people and I do but its never the same, whenever i see her hanging out with her other friend i get so upset

riseofthemachine · 41-45, M

Don't be running and racing after her .
If she's your best friend , she senses that and she,'ll leave you run after her like a headless chicken .
Wake up love . She senses your insecurities.
I didn't get close to someone in 15 years .
How do you think I know what your saying .

raspblossom · 22-25, F

@riseofthemachine im not 🥲 ive been trying to find new friends but even tho she replaced me, i cant replace her so easily

riseofthemachine · 41-45, M

@raspblossom I understand you had a soul connection with her .

raspblossom · 22-25, F

@riseofthemachine YES EXACTLY!! but it was all in vain it seems

Primnproper · 56-60, F

At the end of the day we get back what we put in and if she’s not invested in your friendship then why should you be. I spent years putting myself out for others that really didn’t appreciate it. So now my energy will match theirs.

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smiler2012 · 56-60

@raspblossom i can understand you being a little peeved by this you fell like you arev getting your nose pushed out and it maybe simple as lack of thought on your friends part nothing personal

raspblossom · 22-25, F

@smiler2012 she lied to me once when i asked to hangout, said her laptop would overheat but then posted smth with her other friend, they were playing together on the same day

Yayasim · 31-35

Dont force it . Dont force ppl to be in your life . Its better to be alone . Also you know your worth . You shouldnt have to beg somebody for their time . He or she is showing you they dont want you around

raspblossom · 22-25, F

@Yayasim @Yayasim That's true, it's hard to let it go but i think im learning to accept it better now :)

robertsnj · 56-60, M

how did you two become friends in the first place? where were you two in life? high school, college, shared the same job?

raspblossom · 22-25, F

@robertsnj through instagram, we’ve been best friends for 4 years, or thats what i thought at least

badminton · 61-69, MVIP

Sometimes people just drift apart. Your paths diverged. Others will come into your path.

raspblossom · 22-25, F

@badminton she keeps in touch tho but she seems so uninterested idk whats going on

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