Why does he hate me?

I dont get it. We were good friends. A week before he was still saying "yay" when i said ill be attending class and asking me whats wrong when i was absent. Its been a month now and he hadnt spoken to me. Hadnt even looked in my direction. I dont get it. Our last text was me asking if he was okay because he was acting off. After I gave him his birthday present, it was like everything we ever did together was just gone. He never acknowledged me again. Never asked if i was okay. Never looked at me. Never waved at me. Never smiled at me. I dont know what i did wrong. I just want my buddy back. My buddy who argued over custody of our paper butterflies we spent hours folding and painting. My buddy who told me it didnt matter that he was spending his money as long as i liked notebook. My buddy who told me to call him whenever i ran away from home so he could be there and hear my troubles. What happened to us? Why wont you talk to me? Why wont you tell me whats wrong? I dont understand. I thought you liked me. Why arent you looking at me? Why are you talking bad about me? Why? I dont get it.

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saintsong · 41-45, F

Yeah if he has a new girlfirend, she is the one to be put up on a pedistool,, not you...You can take a hint, he is ghosting you, it's now up to you to walk away and let them have their space. I know it hurts, I know you want what you once had back, but it's not realistic....Now is the time to take tender care of your wounded heart and soul, pour yourself that bubble bath with candles. wear that fuzzy robe and enjoy your favorite treats. Get enough rest and sleep, listen to music that helps you to move on. When you can surround yourself with the people whom you love be it friends or family members. It will help...Just remember that God is close to the broken hearted.

YouUsedToBeNice · 13-15

@saintsong i never asked to be put on a pedestal. I just want to be friends. I dont get why he has to ignore me. Or even yell at me when i tried asking him whats wrong. Hes acting like i did something wrong. If its really that he has a new girlfriend and focuses on her, thats okay, but completely throwing me to the side and being uncalled for is just confusing. Not only that, they broke up already and hes still ignoring me. He was also still a good friend months into their relationships and just randomly dropped me. I just dont understand.

itsgonnabealright · 22-25, F

have you noticed any changes in his behaviour which may have led to this?

YouUsedToBeNice · 13-15

@itsgonnabealright he was acting off because he had a new girlfriend and had to adjust his behaviour and stuff, but its been months and i didnt expect him to randomly do this, i know his girlfriend and she didnt tug any strings either.

Mudkip · 31-35, M

Have you tried talking to him?

YouUsedToBeNice · 13-15

@Mudkip i did, in my last message i asked if i had done anything to upset him, he said no and brushed it off. Later on irl i asked him why he was acting off, he slapped my hand off his shoulder and said "dont touch me" with a glare. I dont get it.

Mudkip · 31-35, M

@YouUsedToBeNice hmm, from reading your other comment, it's probably the girlfriend having this influence on him and not really himself.

YouUsedToBeNice · 13-15

@Mudkip i was thinking that too. But me and his girlfriend had a talk and she had no idea. She even tried asking him and he wouldnt even tell her. What confuses me the most is his sudden attitude, itd make sense if he grew distant slowly before ghosting me completely, but the night before he acted like i didnt exist, he still chatted with me casually and even joked hed crush my mini clay figurine i made, only to completely ignore me and it when i brought it to class the next day to show him.

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