This comment is hidden.
Show Comment
General · 16-17
@sree251 what I meant is that my father shares a similar view with you you said fortitude is a great asset to develop to get that big break in life. My father has always said that hard work will get that big break in life. Though there is a huge difference between courage in pain, fortitude, and hard work , the way you simply phased the sentence just reminds me of my father and mother too. I’m sorry I never really made that clear💜
sree251 · 41-45, M
@General You said: "My father has always said that hard work will get that big break in life."
"Working hard" has many meanings. I don't know what your father meant by that. Your original post (OP) conveyed to me the situation you are going through now. It's tough being a teenager.
Fortitude has nothing to do with hard work. Fortitude is having faith in yourself and not losing it when the going gets tough. This is easier said than done.
"Working hard" has many meanings. I don't know what your father meant by that. Your original post (OP) conveyed to me the situation you are going through now. It's tough being a teenager.
Fortitude has nothing to do with hard work. Fortitude is having faith in yourself and not losing it when the going gets tough. This is easier said than done.
PoetryNEmotion · F
Do not worry about marriage. Evolve much more before you even mention that subject. This site is anonymous. How can you fear anything here? Just post. Read the comments. Say what you think. You sound lost. Are you in your twenties? That is a time for learning who you are, what you want, and how to get it. Do you have simple goals? Daily ones? Yearly ones? Start small. Left behind? Comparison is the thief of joy. Never compare. Each of us has our own life journey. So do yours. Tests? You study about a week before. Daily. Then the night before you are ready. Do not procrastinate. It causes stress and, in your case, panic. Do you like that? I think not. Get a job if you have to. Or live at home until you become more of a man. An adult. Try new things. New experiences. This is a learning time. Go learn. You will figure life out in time. Even then it will surprise you. Now go.
General · 16-17
@PoetryNEmotion I’m not in my 20s I’m still 16 and it’s just scary to post since I’m not always comfortable to share at times, I usually keep things to myself and deal with things without anyone helping me. To be honest I’m not looking for help, but I’m looking for guidance. The people in the comments have done just that. When I spoke about the tests, I was simply using it as a comparison for my life being last minute that’s all. That stress and panic is something I do enjoy, it gives me motivation to work hard to get everything done, might be weird I know but it is the way I work. I only mentioned marriage because I’ve always had the thought of it lingering sometimes. I’m a person who thinks of the future a lot and I don’t enjoy the present sometimes I know that’s an issue but I’m sure I’ll get better. I’m just serious about my future that’s why worry that I might make rash decisions that will regret. I’m sorry that my responses are a bit mixed up. I appreciate you trying to motivate me to try new things 💜
JonLosAngeles66 · M
Everyone's on a different timeline. Life can be stressful. I can totally remember that dread when you had a test or assignment due and you weren't close to ready.
General · 16-17
@JonLosAngeles66 Yah ig everyone is struggling too. But I’m sure it’ll work out 💜
valobasa4ever · F
