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My night got ruined over a cup of ramen noodle

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As a new mother, I’ve been busy caring for my baby. I’m so tired and busy that I put my eating time at the end when I have little bit of free time. I asked my “husband” to cook me a cup a ramen cus I was getting hungry.
We don’t have a microwave at the moment so we heat the water in an electric kettle…he comes back with the cup and I told him to set it on the side while it finish cooking . 3 minutes later ish, I got the cup of ramen and noticed the water wasn’t even hot enough to fully cook the noodles…I asked him how long did he heat up the water for and he laughed it out and said for a couple of minutes. I laughed along and suddenly I broke down in front of him(which I haven’t done in a while). I had big tears and told him how his video game was more important than my “food” that he rushed to heat the water so he won’t miss his game. It hurt me deep idk why I let it get to me, I don’t even love him anymore but wtf at least do it right , you know? Or maybe it got to me bcus I’ve been busy, a little stressed etc…I just wanted to feel validated for once. 🥺
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SW-User
There’s this thing , I forgot what’s it called , but it’s a psychological trick, where when you ask someone for a favor and they do it very poorly so you don’t ask them again. Not sure if he did that but a lot of men use this technique so their wives don’t bother them with stuff. I’m sorry you are going through this. It’s the small things that matter in relationship.
SweetBee · 26-30, F
@SW-User oh I haven’t heard of that but that is some tricky shit if that is what he was doing .