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I want to become a better adult but i dont know how

I dont know where to start with being a good adult. Today i bumped somebody's car while reversing, i was with a friend and we looked for the owner, luckily there was no damage but i feel that ive been driving for a while and shouldnt make such mistakes at this age. I make a lot of mistakes for a 25 year old.

I still live at home and feel that i would not survive on my own. I dont even know where to begin with being responsible fo myself .Sometimes i find it hard to even speak for myself, whether its at work or at a store.

I feel embarrassed because all my friends are good adults, they take care of what needs to be done and have plans for their futures and lives.
I feel stuck, i have a job, but no ambition or vision.

Im just living day by day, trying to avoid situatuons that would cause me stress. I even avoid going out of the house when i dont need to inorder to avoid making mistakes but i know thats no way to live considering i need to be out everyday.

Ive always felt like all i do is incorrect and i feel like ill never grow into who i want to be, i feel that ill be stuck as this awkward adult for the rest of my life and it scares me.
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Hey, it’s okay. You make a lot of mistakes, and that’s how you learn. Don’t be so tough on yourself and keep trying. You haven’t figured out what you want to do with your life yet, but as long as you don’t give up you’ll find what your life is about.