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I want to become a better adult but i dont know how

I dont know where to start with being a good adult. Today i bumped somebody's car while reversing, i was with a friend and we looked for the owner, luckily there was no damage but i feel that ive been driving for a while and shouldnt make such mistakes at this age. I make a lot of mistakes for a 25 year old.

I still live at home and feel that i would not survive on my own. I dont even know where to begin with being responsible fo myself .Sometimes i find it hard to even speak for myself, whether its at work or at a store.

I feel embarrassed because all my friends are good adults, they take care of what needs to be done and have plans for their futures and lives.
I feel stuck, i have a job, but no ambition or vision.

Im just living day by day, trying to avoid situatuons that would cause me stress. I even avoid going out of the house when i dont need to inorder to avoid making mistakes but i know thats no way to live considering i need to be out everyday.

Ive always felt like all i do is incorrect and i feel like ill never grow into who i want to be, i feel that ill be stuck as this awkward adult for the rest of my life and it scares me.
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Monalisaa1986 · 36-40, F
Don’t rush it and don’t force yourself to do anything unless it feels right to you