When I'm not pretty anymore (A VENT)

"You have such a beautiful daughter"

That's what people used to say to my father. I gained 20kg now. I know I shouldn't listen to other people, but tbh I hate seeing myself in the mirror. I stopped taking selfies and even go out with my friends.

Other people looks so great even when they are plus size, but I'm not. I'm also suffering from irregular menstruation and mental disorder (panic attacks).

I always bounce back when I try to go on a diet. Sometimes simple things are just really hard.

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Raaii · 22-25, F

Sometimes simple things are just really hard.
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Sorry I don't know how to quote
But I like this line
It's very relatable

And as a person who has never been called pretty in real life I want to say that don't listen to people always
Sometimes it may put you in such a bad mental state , it'll take like forever to recover from it
Our health, our body is most important to us
So we've our own reason to work on it
Weight just comed and goes , sizes don't matter
It'll change but we can't change people's mind , we can't control also
For people who love us we'll always be beautiful no matter what
They understand us
Irregular menstruation really takes a big toll on woman body
Don't stress yourself
Everything will be okay
I hope you'll feel better soon
And sorry
My english is not tht good 🙇‍♀️