Mindful · 56-60, F
How long has this been going on? I suggest you just hang out with one or two close friends at a time, till you are friends again. And forget which group she is in. You need to stop hanging out with her. Start by fighting with her the way others do.. maybe ask her tough questions like why are you always taking me away my attention from other friends? Is someone telling you she is toxic or is she really toxic?
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Mindful · 56-60, F
@Hihihihilolololhi no. You get to invite anyone you want. She sounds like she can fake it with anyone anyway. Don’t invite her or tell her if she doesn’t like who’s coming, she can skip the party, and you and her can hang out on a different day.
Hihihihilolololhi · 22-25
@Mindful true! I just feel like she’s saying this either because she like telling the “truth” or because she was genuinely curious why or she was kind of jealous? I literally have no clue tho
Hihihihilolololhi · 22-25
@Mindful also I already invited her, I put everyone in a group chat including her. Because she’s basically my closest friend at school
Mindful · 56-60, F
There’s a saying that if you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say it at all. And bring more of your own food to share. I would just start turning true comments back on her by saying are you sure your aren’t talking about yourself? “I’d like you to try really hard to find something nice and true about each of your friends and try to focus on that, be glad you know someone like that, because it’s annoying hearing YOU complain every single day. Or… why do you always have to say ugly things. About people? If you don’t love others you can’t live yourself and if you don’t love yourself, accept yourself, you can’t live others. People are people and everyone is different. No one is perfect. We are all here trying to become better people. Why don’t you try it?
donttextme · 22-25, T
if u need a new friend feel free to dm me <3 @samm.jeremia