I tried so hard

We would have been married 5 years this October. My husband told me 2 days ago that he wants out. He told me that we just aren’t communicating right and that we’ve grown apart and he just isn’t feeling the spark between us. He gave me a warning about this a month ago and I tried so hard to show him that I’m willing to put in the effort to keep our relationship going but everything I tried made him more distant. Yesterday, as a last stitch effort I wrote a heartfelt letter to him but the answer is still the same. I guess deep down I knew he wasn’t going to change his answer but i really hoped he would. He told me part of his reasoning for not changing his mind is because it would be a slap in the face to everyone if he goes back on his initial decision and that he pour a ton a time in coming to his initial decision and even how he told me. I’m just heartbroken…

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Disgustedman · 61-69, M

He's more than likely already got your replacement on the wings, I check his credit card records and see what a private investigator could find out. It'll help when you take that bastard to the cleaners.

LadyGrace ·

@Disgustedman I wouldn't even waste my time or money on an investigator. He's made up his mind. That would only serve to prolong things. She needs to move on and find someone who appreciates, respects, knows how to treat a woman, and knows what love and commitment means.

Disgustedman · 61-69, M

@LadyGrace I would mainly because in the divorce if he thinks he's walking away scott free she should let him know "No, you're not"

LadyGrace ·

@Disgustedman True. If she has the money, that would be in her favor. For that reason only, I think I would find a friend to tail him in a different car and take pictures of him, for example, wait until him and his girlfriend going to the motel room and then take a picture of the license plate and the motel room number. I'm not sure they would get caught though if they try to get a picture of him going into the hotel room with her but that should be accomplished at a distance.

WonderGirl · 36-40

@Disgustedman He's already found someone new. Get out while you can.