No freedom
I feel like I don't have the freedom to wear what I wanted to wear because my boyfriend gets to decided what should I wear. If I wear something for work or for errands, I have to ask for permission of my outfit. What kind of life is this?
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nacnud · 31-35, M
It is a serious red flag to leave! Me and my mrs have never said what each other have to wear. His threats of what he will do is blackmail to stay. Seek those who can support you. He needs to learn that behaviour is unacceptable. I suspect you may find yourself a lot happier as you wont be worrying about people pleasing him and you can be your own self.