how do i stop being invisible

im always talked over. always never looked at or spoken to unless i speak first. people constantly leave me or hurt me for no reason when all i want to do is love. i keep falling for the same trap. i dont want to be beaten. or hurt. and i dont want to loose the trust i jave for you

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Adrift · 61-69, F

They usually call when they want something.
Tip 1. Dont be available when they do.
Suddenly when your not so available, you become the topic of all their conversations. (Be prepared not so complimentary)
Making the same mistake over and over again, you have to look at what you are doing and why you are allowing these things.