He wont even tell me what happened

I miss him every single day. I dream about him every single night. I can't even fall asleep because I can't get him off my mind. He was the best friend I've ever had in my whole life. I was in love with him to. It's almost been a year. How am I supposed to heal? I though I would spend my life with him. I've never loved anyone more. I miss him so much. So so so much. I tried talking to him. I don't even know why we aren't friends anymore. He told me it was personal. Please Harevs. Please. I love you Harvey. I love you forever. No matter what. Love, Gracie

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Diotrephes · 70-79, M

@GRacie3333 If you love him as you say, then be glad for his future happiness with someone that he loves. If he stayed with you he would never be happy, which would eventually anger you beyond belief. So, do yourself a favor and be glad that he is giving you a chance to find someone who will love you as your are and whom you will also love.

Break-ups can be hard because it appears that you are being rejected. But look at it like an opportunity to have a chance to be with someone who will really cherish you and stick with you through thick and thin.

Consider this break-up as a death and have a funeral service for your relationship. Don't try to resurrect it. Put on your smiley face and go forth on the road to true love. You will be happy.

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GRacie3333 · 22-25, F

@Diotrephes I hope so. I really do. He told me he would love me forever but I should have known it was empty words.

Diotrephes · 70-79, M

@GRacie3333 If you are in a situation where you see each other often, you may want to discuss how you should relate to each other. For instance, if you are in a social setting will you say hello to each other or will you simply look through the other person as if you re looking at a piece of furniture or a wall?

GRacie3333 · 22-25, F

@Diotrephes we make eye contact all they time. so much. but we never say anything to each other