He wont even tell me what happened
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Diotrephes · 70-79, M
@GRacie3333 If you love him as you say, then be glad for his future happiness with someone that he loves. If he stayed with you he would never be happy, which would eventually anger you beyond belief. So, do yourself a favor and be glad that he is giving you a chance to find someone who will love you as your are and whom you will also love.
Break-ups can be hard because it appears that you are being rejected. But look at it like an opportunity to have a chance to be with someone who will really cherish you and stick with you through thick and thin.
Consider this break-up as a death and have a funeral service for your relationship. Don't try to resurrect it. Put on your smiley face and go forth on the road to true love. You will be happy.
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Break-ups can be hard because it appears that you are being rejected. But look at it like an opportunity to have a chance to be with someone who will really cherish you and stick with you through thick and thin.
Consider this break-up as a death and have a funeral service for your relationship. Don't try to resurrect it. Put on your smiley face and go forth on the road to true love. You will be happy.
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GRacie3333 · 22-25, F
@Diotrephes we make eye contact all they time. so much. but we never say anything to each other
Mamapolo2016 · F
This is always hard, but it's completely doable.
Don't sit by yourself and mourn. It won't accomplish anything.
Change up some things. New hairstyle, new music, go new places. Distract yourself until you can act yourself again.
On only this website there are hundreds of people who have been broken-hearted and got past it. You will too, if you want to.
Don't let Harvey live in your head rent-free.
Don't sit by yourself and mourn. It won't accomplish anything.
Change up some things. New hairstyle, new music, go new places. Distract yourself until you can act yourself again.
On only this website there are hundreds of people who have been broken-hearted and got past it. You will too, if you want to.
Don't let Harvey live in your head rent-free.
Im sorry this its just hilarious.. Um did you forget.. You're a girl. just go get another guy. literally just go outside and yell Ive broken up!! And bam 50 new dates. problem solved move on. For example Im way better than this chump youre crying over lmfao... Get over it. Nobody cares about your feelings. As long as youre not in any kind of danger youll be fine. quit complaining... cuz the next guy is just waiting for thier turn so hurry up and pick. Litterally the only people that will be able to help you here is other women. Besides that, men are gonna be much much nicer to you but of course. Eventually..expecting,,.. favors...because you owe it since men were much nicer to you. Its sad but hey thats just how it works..
Mamapolo2016 · F
@Diotrephes That may be.
@Mamapolo2016 no i meant just her feelings dont matter.. as long as shes safe and shes not in any kind of danger shell be fine. People just need to suck it up lol.. Sheesh. no big deal . she should have known what kinds of guys shes dating. Some girls get used like that because theyre not careful. I woudlnt do that. But you cant feel bad for a girl who goes through this. You just cant. Shes the one who gave herself up so easily.
Diotrephes · 70-79, M
@Astinmartinn[quote] no i meant just her feelings dont matter.. as long as shes safe and shes not in any kind of danger shell be fine. People just need to suck it up lol.. Sheesh. no big deal . she should have known what kinds of guys shes dating. Some girls get used like that because theyre not careful. I woudlnt do that. But you cant feel bad for a girl who goes through this. You just cant. Shes the one who gave herself up so easily.[/quote]
It's basic human nature for people to gravitate toward others like the ones they grew-up with. For example, if a child had abusive parents the child will seek out a partner who is abusive. That is because that is the type of person the child (now adult) is comfortable with although the person might hate the abuser. The person won't really be happy with someone who is nice until the person changes him/herself to become comfortable with a nicer person.
https://tinybuddha.com/blog/how-i-stopped-being-everything-i-hated-about-my-parents/
https://tinybuddha.com/blog/how-to-spot-abusive-people-and-stop-getting-into-toxic-relationships/
It's basic human nature for people to gravitate toward others like the ones they grew-up with. For example, if a child had abusive parents the child will seek out a partner who is abusive. That is because that is the type of person the child (now adult) is comfortable with although the person might hate the abuser. The person won't really be happy with someone who is nice until the person changes him/herself to become comfortable with a nicer person.
https://tinybuddha.com/blog/how-i-stopped-being-everything-i-hated-about-my-parents/
https://tinybuddha.com/blog/how-to-spot-abusive-people-and-stop-getting-into-toxic-relationships/
TeirdalinFirefall · 26-30, M
That's just how things happen sometimes.
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