Am I wrong?

My ex partner, father of my 3 children 11,10 & 8 is living in the family home, he pays £100 a week, that includes his contribution to the upkeep of the 3 children, rent (he has his own room) gas electric use of WiFi tv and all toiletries plus food, he doesn’t lift a finger around the house. He doesn’t help with clothing, hair cuts ect for the children everything is taken care of by me, he said he can’t afford more than £100 he only earns £382 a week after tax, he has no car and a monthly contract mobile phone. Is this acceptable ? What would you do?

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Teslin · M

Cut off his food, toiletries and his wifi/TV.

Why are you paying for his food and toiletries!!!

Don't let him take advantage of you please !!

Jo17anne · 41-45, F

@Teslin well the WiFi covers the building and I don’t buy him toiletries but he uses the toothpaste, the boys deodorant sprays, bubble bath, shampoo, toilet paper ect, I also don’t buy or make him meals, he helps himself to milk, things out the fridge cupboards ect even makes himself a packed lunch out of my food 🤦‍♀️