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Just found out that one of my older male cousins doesn't want anything to do with me

Tonight, we were going to have a small family activity by going to the city's bowling alley. My mom told me to call my cousin to let him know thaf we were on our way to the bowling alley, so I did. Then my little brother(12) told us that our cousin always ignores my calls because he thinks that I'm weird.
It's sad because the both of us have been close ever since we were little and formed a bond. Now, showing my colors, the person I am, he wants nothing to do with me. It all makes sense because he never greets me whenever I see him, he doesn't smile at me either.
There's this part of me that's sad, then there's this part of me that is a bit angry because my own cousin, a close family member who I grew up with, wants nothing to do with me because I'm weird.
Okay, his lost. I could do without a family member. I have plenty more cousins to replace him, male or female.
Isthisit · F
Im sorry that happened to you. I can kind of relate as i found out a couple of years ago that my younger brother doesnt like me and it really upset me! I thought we were fine as hes my brother, but apparently not. He also thinks im weird.
Xalvadora · 18-21, F
@Isthisit I really hate that, especially when they are about to be a teenager. I know that things like this may change over time, but it is still a harsh thing to do, not liking your siblings or seeing your siblings as siblings. That hate would turn into regret as our siblings will miss us when we are like five states away from them and can't find a way to contact us. These kids (yeah, nowadays, these young teens are acting like flipping kids) will ruin their own relationship with their family members and when they grow up and mature enough to understand and learn to feel deep regret, they'll end up feeling so bad for treating us like shit. Even when they never interact with us now, where's the chemistry between these siblings? Where's the bond? It's painful already living with them, knowing they do not like you.
For me, I know that I will not go back to my hometown once I leave. Along with this, I'll be leaving behind my past, which would be a good thing because I need the growth. Once I leave, I will already start to forget about the people who made me feel like shit up until now.
Viper · M
Normal people are the weird ones... because most people aren't normal...
JohnOinger · 41-45, M
Im Sorry to hear that
Andromedanian · 22-25, M
that's fine hehe

 
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