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im so lost

sooo i like a boy. hes my first love too like😭😭 nvm i started liking him 2 months ago and added him on snap. we started snapping and after two weeks i confessed my feelings for him and he told me he that he has a gf. so i stopped talking to him but i miss him so much😭 i love him and it hurts knowing someone else is having the time of her life with him. i dont want to ruin their relationship so im not doing anything stupid. im just waiting. idk what im waitinf but im just waiting. i want to forget him but i cant. he doesnt get out of my head. in my head i want them to break up but then i feel bad for feeling this way bcs i have no right to wish sth bad like that. but idk what to do. can yall help me out pls😭😭
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I have been through this as well. Pining for someone that is out of reach. Keep the negatives out of your mind. Let this go so you can focus on yourself. Volunteer work, anything that gets you away from memories of him that keeps you hanging on. Journal your feelings, if you are religious, consult with a spiritual advisor. They can give you the compass to guide you. It won't last forever, it is all up to you
smiler2012 · 56-60
{@kookiestingerbell] 😣 this story sounds quiet familiar for me back in 1984 .there was this girl i fancied the knickers off and when i finally plucked up the courage to ask her out she had a boyfriend . she moved away a couple of years after but i always think about her still after all this time
rockstar · 31-35, M
There’s not much you can do about it.
Think of it as good 2 weeks talking to him, and move on. Keep yourself distracted with other things to do, and other people to talk to. It’s easier said than done, but know you’ll find someone else and love again.
we started snapping and after two weeks i confessed my feelings for him and he told me he that he has a gf.

At which point you should have told him.....

"If she ever singles you up, let me be the first one you tell"

Bold....YES.... = No pain/no reward
Caetano84 · 36-40, M
Well, that sucks. But, you know. There's a lot of people out there. This shall pass. Just move on. Try to find someone else to talk to.
Jungleman · M
you sound like a whiny little snowflake.
TheRascallyOne · 31-35, M
How old are you?
HannibalMontanimal · 26-30, M
Send him nudes
caccoon · 36-40
Just wait. There are so many dudes in the world and you don't even really know this guy

Also, people break up all of the time
REMsleep · 41-45, F
You will get over it. You did the right thing and if he was talking with you for 2 months and it never came up that he had a gf I think that he was kinda shady as well.

 
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