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Forced coming out??

My sister kept asking me about my sexuality. I told her that I didn't identify myself with any identity because I didn't feel comfortable labelling myself. Then she said "oh yea I get that, but do you imagine yourself with a girl?" I told her "uhm it depends on the person." But she kept kinda pushing the narrative of a girl. I just kept saying it depends on the person. She then said "oh pansexual then?" I told her idk, I don't like labels. It got to the point where I just agreed that I do imagine myself being with a woman (being a woman myself). Though, I can't help but feel a little angered and uncomfortable by the whole situation. Idk what to do or feel tbh.
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It sounds like maybe she wants to come out. If so, and she wants to talk about it, that’s one conversation. But your sexuality is none of her business. You’re completely within your rights to tell her so, and that you don’t wish to discuss it.