Forced coming out??

My sister kept asking me about my sexuality. I told her that I didn't identify myself with any identity because I didn't feel comfortable labelling myself. Then she said "oh yea I get that, but do you imagine yourself with a girl?" I told her "uhm it depends on the person." But she kept kinda pushing the narrative of a girl. I just kept saying it depends on the person. She then said "oh pansexual then?" I told her idk, I don't like labels. It got to the point where I just agreed that I do imagine myself being with a woman (being a woman myself). Though, I can't help but feel a little angered and uncomfortable by the whole situation. Idk what to do or feel tbh.

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HootyTheNightOwl

"uhm it depends on the person."

That's exactly as it should be, no matter the gender of the person.

Possibly the easiest form of defence right now would be the "I found this conversation to be confrontational - so I said anything to shut you up".

1) It's not wrong - she was confrontational.
2) You are still young enough to be figuring yourself out - Why should you have to accept labels that a) don't matter anyway and b) may or may not fit you???

Take all the time you need - and don't let others try to force you into one camp or the other. If you go, go because you want to and not because someone tells you that it's best for you.