I just can't take it with her anymore

Poll - Total Votes: 29

Tell her straight up

Give up

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There's this girl right? And I am OBSESSED with her, to the point where she's the first thing I think of in the morning and the last thing I want to think about at night. I've been trying to tell her how I feel but I always stop myself because I became THAT friend for her. The friend she talks to about guys and what to do, so I always stop myself because I think it's just going to be pointless since she's not interested, even though we always have like... I don't know how to explain it well but just those kinda moments and it makes me believe otherwise. This has been going on for months and I can't take it anymore and I'm thinking I just blurt it out or just giving up all together. I'm gonna put a poll and please help me decide

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Whodunnit · M

Confidence is key. Just ask her out on a date and be chill about it.

If she says no then you've lost nothing romantic. If she says yes then you've gained everything.

You'd be far better finding out one way or another rather than living in limbo. The myriad 'what could have beens' will eventually eat you up.

Andromedanian · 26-30, M

@Whodunnit that's great advice, although. If he had very low self esteem, a no, could result in his self esteem further decreasing, so I would advice to first make sure they are content with their life right now, so as though, if they were to get the no, they're like, that's fine, my life is good enough already.

I know it's an obvious, it's just that many guys including me sometimes think. Relationship will be the source to their happiness

Whodunnit · M

@Andromedanian That's a fair point. You need to at least like yourself before you can love another 😁