I just can't take it with her anymore

Poll - Total Votes: 29

Tell her straight up

Give up

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There's this girl right? And I am OBSESSED with her, to the point where she's the first thing I think of in the morning and the last thing I want to think about at night. I've been trying to tell her how I feel but I always stop myself because I became THAT friend for her. The friend she talks to about guys and what to do, so I always stop myself because I think it's just going to be pointless since she's not interested, even though we always have like... I don't know how to explain it well but just those kinda moments and it makes me believe otherwise. This has been going on for months and I can't take it anymore and I'm thinking I just blurt it out or just giving up all together. I'm gonna put a poll and please help me decide

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uncalled4 · 56-60, M

You're probably stuck in the friendzone, which, as you probably know, is tough to move out of. Hitting on her could have dire consequences to the friendship, which you should consider unless you can take or leave her friendship at this point.

I can't tell you how to proceed, just know that there's a risk. And, also know this: they are smarter than us. Chances are, she knows you like her and will see you coming a mile away. Be prepared for anything in terms of her response if you hit on her. Good luck!