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Need a solution please

I had this friend who is basically jealous all the time,,, i can't even hanging out with people anymore beacuse she will asking about it with who, why,where, and then instantly saying no if she don't like the person im hanging out too,,what is worse that im to scared to get mad beacuse i dont want to be hated i dont want to see as bad person,, i just know she will bad mouthing me if i do anything that annoyed her...so anyone who have solution or have experience give me tips🙏🏻
Scribbles · 36-40, F
I'd dump the jealous friend tbh. I would not want someone like that around me. I don't have the time or patience to deal with that.

You could try setting boundaries. And that you don't like the way she treats you. And that if she continues doing x,y, and z that you don't want to be friends anymore. Chances are she'll dig a hole for herself, and you can make a clean break.
Selly · 22-25
@Scribbles Thank you and i will try my best to say that i dont like the way she is treat me, it will take some time but i hope i really have the brave to say that,,
Littlewing · 36-40, F
She doesnt sound like a very good friend. You shouldnt have to put up with that behaviour.
Littlewing · 36-40, F
@Selly so she is a bully? She has forced you to have a freindship with her?
Selly · 22-25
@Littlewing at first she is just the typical normal friend , but yk slowly she is getting like that i don't even know what and why the reason she became 'toxic'
Littlewing · 36-40, F
@Selly you need to set your boundaries and stand up for yourself. Let her know you wont allow anyone to treat you that way. She is not your boyfreind, she doesnt own you.
Banksy83 · 41-45, M
Respect yourself and tell her you dont need any gaslighting friends . Get a grip of the situation .end it.
Selly · 22-25
@Banksy83 Thank you i will try to more respectful with myself more and get a grip of the situation
Banksy83 · 41-45, M
@Selly Hope everything goes well Lady
Selly · 22-25
@Banksy83 thank you so much!
TexChik · F
Either you control your life or she does . Make a choice and stand by it .
SW-User
Punch her in the uterus.
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