i hate friends

i have a friend of mine who thinks they arfe right all the damn time like always there is disagreemant ALWAYS although im right about it they somehow have somthing to say and make u feel like bs.the amount of time that person made me cry is like i cant even tell yk.and when i try to tell them then they say im dramatic overreacting and whatsoever.supposedly we are fighting in chat they gotta ask their parents for solution.so as usual when parents get involved its always they are right but what if i said their parents is stupid ald is always advising their kid in the wrong way.like clearly that person is wrong but their parents tell them thats its right and bleh bleh ITS JUST SO ANNOYING AND I CANT SEEM TO GET RID OF HER.MY ONLY WAY OF LIKE GETTING MY STRESS AWAY IS TO TALK SHIT ABOUT HER WITH PEOPLE WHO THINKS THE SAME OF HER.Is this a right thing to do or what am i supposed to do?

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WhateverWorks · 36-40

Really depends on how it all is playing out. Are these disagreements even worth having? What is it that they think they need to be right about? Are you contributing to the back-and-forth by you insisting your perspective is right? Sometimes it’s worth picking those battles, but other times it’s just two people having a pointless power struggle that ultimately just makes both of you not really want be friends. It be better if you guys could come to an understanding that when either one of you is becoming too much you can both drop it when someone respectfully says something like, “ I think we both need to let this go. It’s getting kind of intense“ then change topic to something more agreeable.

No, gossiping about someone behind their back rather than attempting to address the issue is not a good quality though. If you don’t wanna be this person‘s friend because you don’t enjoy who they are as a person then do you both a favor and just stop hanging out with/talking to them. Being two-faced is never the solution.

Dv8rs · 18-21, F

The trick is not to argue, allow your friend their opinion, and agree to disagree. It's not worth it to argue with someone like that. Yes, it's extremely wrong to talk about someone behind their back. Try to be the better person, and refrain from doing that. Even though you feel you need to get it off your chest, all your doing is pouring poison into the next persons' ear. I'm sure you could find better subjects to talk about.

Thevy29 · 41-45, M

Your better off without that negativity in your life.

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