Just got kicked out of the same group chat twice...
First time was for venting/talking about politics. Apparently, I was talking about politics and they kicked me for 24hrs.
Second time was for being rated-r. This user wanted sleep since they hadn't slept yet, so I suggested they masturbate, but I didn't say the word 'masturbate.' I went to Google to look up discreet ways to say masturbate. My first scentence was, "Practice onansim." They didn’t get it. So I asked them their gender. They told me. Then I said, "Then go shake hands with a milkman-" he said, "You mean take a toss" and I said "Yes." I tried to not say any vulgar words. I at least tried, even though I have read their rules three times. I acknowledged that "keep things PG-13" rule. I didn't think what I was saying would have been considered as Rated-R in the first place. I had thought, 'Maybe if I could tell this user to masturbate in a discreet way, then I wouldn't be breaking any rules, but bending them.'
One of Co-Hosts told me that I can't mention anything sexual, as it breaks the chat rules. Then I was kicked. Have to wait 24hrs to be invited into the group chat again.
I did clarify with that Co-Host that if I break another rule again, I'd be banned from that chat. They told me I would be.
At this point, I'm not even mad. I can't be mad because it was my fault for bending that one rule. I'm upset because this isn't my first rodeo and I keep, slightly, forgetting that not everyone will be comfortable with someone at least slightly mentioning something NSFW. I'm not upset because of them. I'm upset with myself because it's never my intention to make others uncomfortable.
Another reason why I would like to stay to myself...
Second time was for being rated-r. This user wanted sleep since they hadn't slept yet, so I suggested they masturbate, but I didn't say the word 'masturbate.' I went to Google to look up discreet ways to say masturbate. My first scentence was, "Practice onansim." They didn’t get it. So I asked them their gender. They told me. Then I said, "Then go shake hands with a milkman-" he said, "You mean take a toss" and I said "Yes." I tried to not say any vulgar words. I at least tried, even though I have read their rules three times. I acknowledged that "keep things PG-13" rule. I didn't think what I was saying would have been considered as Rated-R in the first place. I had thought, 'Maybe if I could tell this user to masturbate in a discreet way, then I wouldn't be breaking any rules, but bending them.'
One of Co-Hosts told me that I can't mention anything sexual, as it breaks the chat rules. Then I was kicked. Have to wait 24hrs to be invited into the group chat again.
I did clarify with that Co-Host that if I break another rule again, I'd be banned from that chat. They told me I would be.
At this point, I'm not even mad. I can't be mad because it was my fault for bending that one rule. I'm upset because this isn't my first rodeo and I keep, slightly, forgetting that not everyone will be comfortable with someone at least slightly mentioning something NSFW. I'm not upset because of them. I'm upset with myself because it's never my intention to make others uncomfortable.
Another reason why I would like to stay to myself...
