My complicated love life

A girl liked me, told me and I rejected her cos I like a girl and I’ve liked her for over 2 years. I haven’t got over her but I told everyone I have. I forgot I said that if I didn’t like her I’d date the girl. Let’s call her Emily and the girl that likes me Jane. We were out and my friends remembered that and asked her out for me and Jane said yea but I didn’t really want to. So we went on a date and it was really awkward she literally said nothing and we walked around. The reason I didn’t dump her when I know I don’t like her was cos I was scared she was gonna starve herself. In reality I still love Emily. I don’t know what to do cos if I stay ina relationship with her then Ik I’m not gonna be happy but if I break up with her she’ll become suicidal. Help. Me.

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ViciDraco · 36-40, M

Open and honest communication is the best chance to avoid inevitable disaster. It may still happen, but you have the best chances of it not.

I would sit down with Jane and tell her that if you have seemed distant it is because you have feelings for someone else and that the spark isn't there. If you wish to end it, you will need to because otherwise you are just going to drag her along.

It also sounds like you really need to talk to Emily and find out if she will reciprocate or if you need to move on. Maybe Jane could be someone of interest but you can't see it because you are infatuated with Emily. Or even if not Jane who else are you missing that could be amazing just because you saw Emily first?

Wolfmiracle7 · 22-25, F

@ViciDraco thank you so much I’ll take your advice

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