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Approval Not Needed

When a person vents here they don't need you commanding them to act differently.
You have every right to disagree, of course.
But a vent isn't really asking advice or for approval.
Unless ,the asking for advice is included in the venting.
It's a way of relieving stress and not an invitation to belittle,critize ,or attack.
I see tons of these vents I disagree with,but have the curtsey to scroll past if I don't understand where they are coming from.
Some ask for advice ,when this happens, on occasion,I answer with my point of view.
If you or I ask advice we are going to get varying ideas.
I understand and accept that.
I rarely ask advice publicly,I choose to that mostly privately.
DrWatson · 70-79, M
Then again, if everyone followed your advice, we would see more of the posts complaining. "This place is dead!" 😄
DrWatson · 70-79, M
@Peaches During the past week, a few folks have left the site. I'm glad you're still here :)
Peaches · F
@DrWatson Social media websites aren't really that "social," so I don't get why it's called that.🤷People are getting bored with the same old stuff, nothing much new is going on to talk about. Who left?🤔
DrWatson · 70-79, M
@Peaches Mrsbetweenfatandfit and KaliKali.
Pinkstarburst · 51-55, F
Very well vented
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
ImpeccablyImperfect · 51-55, F
I approve of this vent
😉
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@ImpeccablyImperfect Thanks 👍😊
It took me a long time to catch on to that.

Maybe because I was a caseworker. When people vented to me they wanted me to do something about it.

You're right.
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@Mamapolo2016 Advice is one thing demanding you do as they think you should is never cool.
I don't see you as the latter.
WintaTheAngle · 41-45, M
Like you I scroll on. I don’t require people to have the same opinion as me but neither am I required to accommodate their blow outs.
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@WintaTheAngle That is true
AlyAngel · F
I agree 100% some people just need to vent and they don't need to put their input just offer support or scroll past.
Steve42 · 56-60, M
I'm glad you got that off your chest.
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@Steve42 Thanks, I think
Jeephikelove · 51-55, F
👏👏👏👏👏 exactly!
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@gregloa Honest
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Peaches · F
Yeah. 😔 Guess I should have never vented about the Indians and two faced "friends" here, let people find out for themselves. 🎭
SW-User
But what will all the experts do with all their knowledge that they want to enlighten you with! 🙄


I hear you totally on this.👍
You’re right, of course. It’s not always easy, but scroll one must sometimes. 🙁
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@bijouxbroussard Yeah, it's hard when it's a close subject
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Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@Stereoguy Today, I did, now must go into overdrive to get things done before moving in for good.
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Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@Stereoguy In the bathroom.
Painted my daughter's room and have to tare out that carpet yet.
The sub flooring was painted plank flooring, we may have to live with it for a bit.
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Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@ChemDawg Not the post just the remarkImade earlier
I put it in time out.
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Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@ChemDawg nothing to be sorry about I was talking about my own remarks not yours which are fine

 
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