I Just Want To Vent

So my lil cousin who was my everything has died a few days after her bday and new years and my family not sure who murdered her. The police and her moms say its suicide but her closet wasnt big enough to hang herself. Now every year every time I see things she used to enjoy as a child I dont like it no more. My uncle some what blamed me for leaving home to have a life of my own, but he was locked up living with another woman doing wrong in his life, I dont shit sucks I've lost her a year after my great grandma died both was my sunshine now I'm grateful for my daughter but I'm scared she might get harmed.

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Temporallube · M

Condolences on your loss. Understandable to be paranoid about your daughter. But that feeling will just make you be more alert. And you just being a father will naturally keep her safe.

You and your daughter be blessed with good fortune.

Afroartis · 26-30, M

@Temporallube thanks yo

SatanBurger · 36-40, F

Wow, that's sad but I'm the same way with seeing things that remind me of my family. Sometimes I do things that they did just to feel their closeness again, it can be therapy. It obviously hurts too much for you to try things like that but it's a way of healing too.

Your uncle didn't really blame you, often times when things are not going right with our lives, we blame others for putting their life right. Kind of what your uncle did towards you. Sometimes, it can seem "all your fault," but it's really not.

Not trying to insult your family, just trying to provide a point of view. If you remind yourself that it's nothing personal and it's the person, it gets easier to deal with.

SW-User

That's rough brother 👊🙏

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SW-User

@Afroartis you got a friend here until then

Afroartis · 26-30, M

@SW-User thanks for everything be safe

SW-User

@Afroartis anytime. you too.

PrivateHell · M

Sorry for your loss.

Afroartis · 26-30, M

@PrivateHell thank you

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