I Need to Vent
Just because I don't want the same things as you does not mean that I'm not "growing up" or experiencing growth.
My birthday was a few days ago. The guy I'm dating took me on a really nice (and well-needed) vacation to celebrate. Everything went well. We had great food and plenty drinks. We had our disagreements on the way back and I've decided to place some space between us.
I called my bff to vent to her and it was at that moment I learned how soon I need to stop that habit. Both her and the guy I'm dating have a way of commenting too aggressively. It's not to say their message is entirely lost in translation...it just makes it harder to swallow. They both lack empathy and well emotions in general. I on the other hand lack logic and possess way too much in emotions, which sucks at time. I take things to heart more often than I should.
All in all, I've decided to take a break from both to focus on getting my own shit together. It's okay to do that.
My birthday was a few days ago. The guy I'm dating took me on a really nice (and well-needed) vacation to celebrate. Everything went well. We had great food and plenty drinks. We had our disagreements on the way back and I've decided to place some space between us.
I called my bff to vent to her and it was at that moment I learned how soon I need to stop that habit. Both her and the guy I'm dating have a way of commenting too aggressively. It's not to say their message is entirely lost in translation...it just makes it harder to swallow. They both lack empathy and well emotions in general. I on the other hand lack logic and possess way too much in emotions, which sucks at time. I take things to heart more often than I should.
All in all, I've decided to take a break from both to focus on getting my own shit together. It's okay to do that.
26-30, F
