I Want to Vent

I had a good job and I was enjoying it, my boss left the organization and asked me to move with her which I did, to move to a horrible Job, I tried to move back to my old job but I couldn't and now I am suffering every day and I regret what I did very much and that makes me not able to sleep sometimes I apologize for the story but I just wanted to throw it out as thinking about what I have done to myself makes me so Sad

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Mikemcneil · 61-69, M

Why did you follow her if you were happy in your old job? I don't really understand

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

@Mikemcneil He made a mistake... he realizes that now. Why are your pouring salt in his wound?

Mikemcneil · 61-69, M

@MarkPaul I'm not. I genuinely don't understand. You can't complain about your own choices. That way lies madness.

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

@Mikemcneil I think it's called reflection and it helps you to avoid repeating mistakes.

Mikemcneil · 61-69, M

@MarkPaul regretting your choice every single day isn't a mentally healthy approach to take. You have to move forward.

Friendlyman64 · 56-60, M

@Mikemcneil it's a mistake I agree I thought the new job will be ok

Friendlyman64 · 56-60, M

@Mikemcneil thank you that's what I am trying to do

Friendlyman64 · 56-60, M

@MarkPaul yes it is, I learned the lesson

Mikemcneil · 61-69, M

@Friendlyman64 we all make mistakes. Don't be too hard on yourself though. Just look for ways to move on now.

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

@Mikemcneil OMG... are you projecting? Every day? He wrote a single message about this and is considering options. You make it sound like he is obsessing over this and can't get past it.

Friendlyman64 · 56-60, M

@Mikemcneil thank you very much I am trying to move forward

Mikemcneil · 61-69, M

@Friendlyman64 good luck in the future.