[c=#BF0080]I get tired of having to set boundaries here or anywhere else.
I do [b]NOT[/b] consider this to be a place I come to collect adult friends to 'play' with or exchange anything other than conversation.
When I have made sure that I have my profile 'About Me' set up, I feel it is rude to be inboxed for anything other than friendship! Big sigh. Rant/vent over! 😔🙄[/c][/center]
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I can only imagine what a woman especially goes through around here. I've seen what some members do, and once they get their foot in the door, that's when everything comes off. It's like they think because a woman says hello, it's a green light for more. I don't get it.
@SW-User It goes the same for some women. I see it coming from both. I guess for some, it's asking for too much to be polite. 🤷
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@JerseyGal In some women's eyes, every man is a pervert, will and wanting to do the nastiest of all things, 24/7. I think a good many of those women are men, but I bet there's a few that really are female.
@SW-User Being that too many go on sites, not just here, and create fake personas, you can never entirely tell. From my past, I could easily think bad about every man, but choose not to. There are great men and great women that are actually real and wonderful people.
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@JerseyGal it's a pleasure when you stumble upon them, isn't it? the gems I mean.
@SW-User Possibly. I guess that'd be for someone to find out.
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@JerseyGal well, I wouldn't mind being that someone some time. I'm not looking to put a diamond on any lady's finger, but if I could find a diamond in the rough, I would love to share a lady finger and a coffee with her. ;)
@SW-User I found the recipe for Olive Garden tiramisu online and have made it several times.
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@JerseyGal o.k....I'm not looking for another wife. I have a hard enough time fighting the one I have already, but seriously? You are stealing my heart by way of my stomach. K, that didn't sound nearly as gross in my head as it dd when I said it out loud, but for comic effect, I'm going to roll with it anyway.
@SW-User lol nope you sure do not need another wife. Sorry for late reply. The groomer called and I had to go pick up my pups. I 💜 cooking and baking. That, my pups, reading, music...passions of mine!
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@JerseyGal I don't keep an eye on the clock when it comes to replies. We all have lives outside of this place.....hopefully.lol
I love cooking. I'm not saying I'm good at it, but I do like it. I bake some as well. I love music. I play guitar and sing a bit, but mostly I collect records, and just drown myself in music. Don't bother to throw me a life preserver....I don't want to be saved.lol
@SW-User Hmm, well sometimes it seems that some are constantly here lol.
Hey, as long as you enjoy it, that's what matters. Drowning in 🎶 music sounds like one good way to go lmao. I like listening to other's play guitar and love hearing the sax!
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@JerseyGal I used to play sax, but I sold mine a few years ago. I just didn't have the interest in it that I once did.
Some people live here, more than they live outside of here. I forget to turn my light off sometimes, and people get mad because I don't respond to them.lol I don't take "here" as seriously as some people think I should I guess. I do like to meet people and have conversations and in some cases, make a new friend. I am always open to friendship.
@SW-User I used to play clarinet, but lost interest too.
I do turn my light on at times, but more often, I don't. Same as you, people would get upset if I didn't reply and my light was on. At night, I'd fall asleep and leave it on. It happens. 🤷
I'm always open to friendship also. Especially when I find that there's actual conversation! ☺
