[c=#BF0080]I get tired of having to set boundaries here or anywhere else.
I do [b]NOT[/b] consider this to be a place I come to collect adult friends to 'play' with or exchange anything other than conversation.
When I have made sure that I have my profile 'About Me' set up, I feel it is rude to be inboxed for anything other than friendship! Big sigh. Rant/vent over! 😔🙄[/c][/center]
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People are not mind readers and sometimes are tired of trying to figure someone out just like you are tired of setting boundaries. It is the internet and that sort of thing is going to happen anywhere free exchange of thought is allowed. If you want a more structured environment perhaps Facebook would be a better idea. Rant/vent over.
@Subsumedpat People do not have to be mind readers. If someone takes the time to go to my profile to message me, it does not take much to glance at what I have written there. It's being courteous instead of just assuming and sending someone unsolicited pictures, etc.
SW-User
@Subsumedpat Basic respect should be given to anyone we encounter on the internet or anywhere else. Saying it is the internet like that is an excuse to be an ass grinds my gears a bit.
@SW-User I agree. That's the problem. Too many use excuses to do things here they would never do to someone in person. Then say "well, it's the Internet; it's expected". That is very disrespectful. For me, it's common courtesy here or any other site, just like it should be if seeing someone in person. Free exchange of thought is everywhere ... That does not excuse assinine behavior.
