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wackidywack · 22-25
if you can find interest in her interests, that'll be a good start but if she tells you no, better treat that with respect
@wackidywack I got no issue dipping. I just don't know what drives such a strong barrier that seems towering and impossible to climb 🧐
wackidywack · 22-25
@sexyjigsaw several things. old pain, possibly ambition, customs. these are walls that can be brought down with perseverance and always respect
@wackidywack makes sense 🤔
How long do you think a healthy amount of time talking should take? Because knowing my ADHD headahh, I'm tryna just be upfront, honest, and talk for like 3 minutes and sort errthang out :v
But I know that's astronomically not feasible yo
Maybe 5. A 5 minute convo should be enough for her to be comfortable enough to trust and explain her deepest darkest life troubles with me so we can work it out
How long do you think a healthy amount of time talking should take? Because knowing my ADHD headahh, I'm tryna just be upfront, honest, and talk for like 3 minutes and sort errthang out :v
But I know that's astronomically not feasible yo
Maybe 5. A 5 minute convo should be enough for her to be comfortable enough to trust and explain her deepest darkest life troubles with me so we can work it out
wackidywack · 22-25
@sexyjigsaw well not everyone works with just 5 minutes. some people take weeks to months and even years, good luck though
@wackidywack and thanks. I hope all is well with you as well
wackidywack · 22-25
@sexyjigsaw bastard <3