What are some tips to talk to a girl that's really reserved to pursue her romantically and you guys met to see if you're compatible?

if you can find interest in her interests, that'll be a good start but if she tells you no, better treat that with respect

I am not an expert, but I think you have to give it more time. I don't think if she is really meeting you to check for romantic compatibility. You can start to interact to understand about other compatibilities like behavioral, life style, Intellectual, philosophical, spiritual, health and psychological.

As a closed off girl i feel i can speak to this directly. I need to see that unexpected, poor lighting and angle d shot. Once i get that surprise in my inbox.. im theirs.. im lost in their masculine magic. Its like leading a lamb to the slaughter.

Find out what she likes as far as art, music, activities go and ask her to join you. Museums are always nice imho bc you can chat about whatever is on display.