I’m tired of feeling like I’m not enough

Every relationship that I’ve attempted has ended the same way and I’m beginning to think it’s my fault. They all ghosted me. I’m not going to be the one who constantly tries to start a conversation for it to end within 10 seconds. I am not a talkative person and half the time I have to force myself to be sociable. I suck at texting and talking over the phone. I don’t think I’m good at holding conversations. I like to stay home and watch tv and play video games. I like to eat and go places as long as it’s not a bar or a club. I’m not exactly a fun or adventurous person. I’m boring. I need to learn to accept that.

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AuRevoir · 36-40, M

That doesn’t sound boring.. 🤔 boring would be like.. idk you have nothing your passionate about.. no favorite things of interest to discuss or explore.. but you sound like you like video games, so that’s definitely full of topics… another boring trait would be that you never joke and always take things too seriously..

I’d say that unless your a mindless zombie who plays games but couldn’t even hope to talk about them.. and that you can’t even joke around and enjoy yourself around the person you’re interested in… Then yes you’re boring.. if that’s not the case then it might be that you’re running into flaky types who they themselves are actually the boring ones..