How do I get past this feeling?

Sometimes people don't think enough to care. Some people don't have the time or any emotional room to give their best to someone that's a stranger. Possibly because they're overwhelmed, like so many seem to be these days, with their own issues, thoughts and stresses. But I don't know.

[b]Caring:[/b]
People may not care, but you [i]do[/i] and that makes you amazing :)

[b]Honesty:[/b]
Some are just not comfortable with hearing the raw truth (yet) and they cannot yet understand the compassion that your honesty originates from.
They will understand, perhaps later in their journey.
Try to be honest without robbing your words from kindness.
Too many are suffering, pointed fingers at, anyone can stumble; a hard truth can still be said with a sense of support - if you want to help, give them room to grow and improve.

[b]Giving:[/b]
When you give, you do not give to take.
You give to [b]give[/b] and that is the [u]sole purpose[/u].

If you give with expectation to take, you will be disappointed; not all can give to the same extent or intensity as you.

When you give just because you felt like it, without expecting anything in return, you will feel content and fulfilled.

Still, if you are tired to give, you can take rest and when ready, give again.
In that way, you inspire others to become like you - leading by example.

You are enriching yourself by giving your best.

Remember, as you give to others, you are also [i]gifting yourself [/i]something intangible but[b] priceless [/b]in your soul, which makes you [b]stronger[/b] every time.
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Let live:[/b]
No matter how giving you are, if some do not wish your help, they cannot be helped.
It is only those who choose to be helped that you can really have a positive impact on.

[b]Hope & Courage[/b]:
Have hope, there are many[b] ripples of greatness[/b] in this world, just like you.
Despite distance and time, we can still act in[b] unison[/b] by choosing our every action [b]wisely[/b].

When you get busy looking for things to say "[b]Thank you[/b]" for, you begin to forget about the things that bring you down... give it a try ;)


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I am sorry to say that most people really don't nowadays. It's like people are getting worse.

Yet, the challenge is not being one of the cruel and rude and bad even when you feel you've got no one in your corner.

Sometimes goodness will be taken advantage of.

I'm not saying this depress you. But it would help if your validation would come from inside and not outside. Keep you in tact. Rely on God. And along the way as you learn to be your own confident self, hopefully the right people to keep with you would come along.

be good to yourself more than you are to [i]most[/i] other people. it would be very rare to find someone who deserves the level of goodness you should give to yourself

Never do a good turn for anyone unless they deserve it and includes those you love because they end up taking you for granted

Yea, that sounds about right.

People are mostly self-centred, some because of struggle, others because they're just naturally that way and have never been taught different.

I think it's better if people don't care, it's less anxiety inducing. It just means you can relax, and see what you get away with.

Be the observer, not the experiment.

Some people get so used to being full of shit, they even convince themselves.

Most people don't care about you because they have too much pressing down on them closer to home. They don't have anything left to spend on you. But there will always be people who are willing and able to prioritize you in their lives. You just have to find them.

Truth is very few people genuinely do care . They may for a time ...but it's fine . As long as you don't expect anything in return then you will be fine .

Maybe it's not you. Maybe it's them.... Maybe you need a better class of friend

Sadly most people are only interested in what promotes there own agenda

It does seem incredibly rare indeed.