It's nice to maintain obscurity from the rest of society and slide under the radar
Especially in terms of dating and relationships. They're not really for me and since I know that and accept those things are outside my scope I am happy to let all that side of life slide away so I can just live the rest of my life in obscurity.
Are you also a 'slide under the radar' person with some, any, or all of your life's facets? Are there things you have let go because you've come to terms with them no longer being realistically possible? Do you feel better in yourself for accepting stuff that you can't change about your life's direction? Or perhaps you don't want to change because you feel you're on the best path/journey for you?
I'm a bit of all those things combined.
I don't need or want anymore to have a 'wonderful romantic sexual adult relationship' to demonstrate to my 9 y/o daughter what that's like in real life as it would be a sham since I know I can't do adult intimacy, romance, etc. properly due to being unable to understand and create/maintain the links that make relationships work. Neuro-divergency, et al.
Are you also a 'slide under the radar' person with some, any, or all of your life's facets? Are there things you have let go because you've come to terms with them no longer being realistically possible? Do you feel better in yourself for accepting stuff that you can't change about your life's direction? Or perhaps you don't want to change because you feel you're on the best path/journey for you?
I'm a bit of all those things combined.
I don't need or want anymore to have a 'wonderful romantic sexual adult relationship' to demonstrate to my 9 y/o daughter what that's like in real life as it would be a sham since I know I can't do adult intimacy, romance, etc. properly due to being unable to understand and create/maintain the links that make relationships work. Neuro-divergency, et al.
