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How to respond?

This is very hard all around. My best friend, my sister, has had labile diabetes for 28 years. Her sugars have been high for many years because her body is so sensitive to even a tiny amount of insulin, and it can crash low, in minutes. She's now developed severe numbness and horrific pain in her feet and legs, (neuropathy) because of the high sugar slowly clogging the nerves and killing them. She says the numbness is simply AWFUL.
She regularly says She believes she's going to die soon or next year. It makes me heartbroken, for her to be facing this MEAN disease or thinking at all about death.
It would be paralyzing in my life to lose her. She's my best friend and the most wonderful person you'd ever meet.🌹 How do I respond when she says every week, I'm going to die soon? I will typically be quiet not knowing how to comfort her, or tell her it's not true shes going to die soon and there's still breakthroughs in diabetes.
How else might you respond? 😕😔
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I would tell her that you understand that she is suffering terribly and you admire her tremendously but you love her so much you don't feel strong enough to hear these things right now, and maybe never

If she keeps repeating it I would say, "I love you and its hurting my heart right now to hear this. I'm not ready. Can we retry this conversation again in six months?"
Baybreeze · 41-45, F
@PlatonicSquirelFriends that's a good way to discuss it and reply, thank you.
MellyMel22 · F
I would try to help her find doctors who can manage it better if possible.
OverTheHill · 61-69, M
Continue to tell her how much you love her, and how grateful that you are that she is your sister and friend. Share memories with her. Enjoy your time with her. I just lost my oldest sister two weeks ago, so I understand the pain of losing her, and seeing her suffer.
Uncfred · 70-79, M
My granddaughter is 15 and has type one, she is also "up and down". I take her shopping whenever she feels "in the mood", and otherwise ignore her plite. It started 5 years ago and floored me but since, we have accepted it as part of life, however long she has.
SirLirkALot · 46-50, M
tell her there has to be a better solution than that. while you're looking for that solution, which you won't find here, help her get go out to a dinner and a movie once in a while. you haven't exhausted all avenues.
Baybreeze · 41-45, F
@SirLirkALot Thank you. She's referring to the disease itself or neuropathy will kill her, not her taking her life thank God.

 
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