If you ever had a close family member die...

Did you start thinking about your own time on earth a lot more? Every day since my dad passed in February, I'm thinking of A. How sad it is Bec it was so fast, and B. How much more time do I have?
Will I get cancer too? Will I get some other severe disease? Or get hit head on by a speeding car?
It makes me realize how little time we have and to maybe start LIVING more. But it also makes me so helpless, that we all leave here😢

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Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

I have thoughts like that too. I don’t want to say too many of them here because I want to support you. The best thing you can do is push the bad thoughts from your mind and enjoy the present. Solutions come surprisingly easily if life is lived in the present and worries are put aside. The mind continues to work on them and sometimes time brings about events that make our biggest problems go away all on their own. Be kind to yourself. You deserve it!

Baybreeze · 41-45, F

@Muthafukajones I appreciate that, thank you 🌸Even before he passed I was worrying how my anxiety would elevate, would I get heart palpitations from panic that he's not here...but I didn't. I worried for days and my subconscious for once was stronger than I gave it credit for. Ty again 🌻