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Rest In Peace Uncle

Found out yesterday my uncle who would have been 67 next month passed away. My aunt found him unresponsive at home when she came back from work. He was experiencing heart burn when she left. She found him in bed under blankets.She ran to neighbours house they called 911 but there was nothing paramedics could do he was gone. My dad and aunt had to break the news to my 90 year old grandma. I can’t imagine what it’s like for someone to lose a spouse or child so quickly. They didn’t get a chance to say goodbye. His death was so sudden. Though last year spring time he had a rupture bowel. He had diabetes for about 15 years. He just recently had a colonoscopy and got results back the day before he died. Everything was clear their no concerns.His daughter birthday was also the date before. I hope he die peacefully and is in a better place. My grandma and my aunt then are quite sad and have tears off and on so heartbreaking to see this. I hope his wife and my grandma will grieve peacefully. Rest in peace uncle grant ❤
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Jayciedubb · 56-60, M
Condolences to you and your family for your loss. It's my opinion that it's best not to suffer.

I just spent the past 6 years watching my wife battle cancer. They were very ominous years. We squandered away any benefit that may have been available to us. We never had that final heart to heart talk where we praise, reminisce, apologize and promise.

In the end, the cancer had spread to her brain and had a negative effect on her sanity. I dont know how else to explain her behavior towards me and the relationships I have with our sons.

In hindsight I think everything would have been better off had it gone the same way it did for your uncle but on the same day it did for her. Or your uncle. That would have given her a couple more months.

I feel that death is only a tragedy for the survivors. If we spend eternity in peace with our loved ones, when we reunite, it won't matter how much time had passed. Even if it was a thousand years, that's just a drop in the bucket compared to eternity